| | Am I wrong for feeling like this, be honest
Hi, new to the board. Here is a little history. Married to husband almost 18yrs. One child. We are both in our early 40's.
Last night we started to get into a heated arguement. I decided and have always said I will not argue in front of my son.I told my husband i would go on the deck to talk but he did not follow. So i decided to leave the home and go for a ride. Not far from home I decide to turn back and pack some items of clothes for the night as I could not forsee me coming home that night due to the argueing. My husband watched me leave the home and not once asked me to stay and talk, not once attempted to have me stay. BUT..five minutes after leaving he decides to call my phone. Me being hurt he did not even try to stop me I ignored his calls. He called twice. I spent the remainder of the night in an unknown location to him and not once did he attempt to text me, call me to see if i was ok. He says his attempts were the two phone calls five minutes after I left. I told him that my feelings are so hurt and that by him not calling is a good indicator of him not loving me. He says I'm overreacting. I for one know if my husband had left angry and did not return for 8hrs I would have attempted to contact him somehow through the night just to make sure he was ok. I have never left the home for the night EVER so this was huge.
So if you were in my shoes would you be hurt that your other half didn't even attempt to locate you, or see if you were ok? please be honest.