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OhGeesh · 05-27-2012, 06:14 PM

There is no one theme fits all. Just to let you guys know in NY cheating is deamed as sexual intercourse with another person........I think all of this "He texted a girl a picture of his penis" or "He emails her all the time" etc etc

Except in the most serious and longterm of instances is not a affair!! A very poor decision yes a affair no!!. I'm sure others will totally disagree with that, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

I know for me playing on a computer with some cyber person would be much different then the actual act of meeting a girl and all of the others steps involved to actually having sex. One is a mouse click or two the other is a pretty serious string of events that lead up to a physical act.........at least most of the time. I really don't know how people say they are equal.

As far as why? For me it would be no other reason then something different aka something strange. Nothing my wife did or really anything she could do.

It's the old adage of steak dinner every night for 20 years sometimes you want asian? It's not even about someone being better it really just would be something different.

Good luck!!

05-27-2012, 06:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
OhGeesh Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 893	Re: A man's insight needed here....please... There is no one theme fits all. Just to let you guys know in NY cheating is deamed as sexual intercourse with another person........I think all of this "He texted a girl a picture of his penis" or "He emails her all the time" etc etc Except in the most serious and longterm of instances is not a affair!! A very poor decision yes a affair no!!. I'm sure others will totally disagree with that, but we are all entitled to our opinions. I know for me playing on a computer with some cyber person would be much different then the actual act of meeting a girl and all of the others steps involved to actually having sex. One is a mouse click or two the other is a pretty serious string of events that lead up to a physical act.........at least most of the time. I really don't know how people say they are equal. As far as why? For me it would be no other reason then something different aka something strange. Nothing my wife did or really anything she could do. It's the old adage of steak dinner every night for 20 years sometimes you want asian? It's not even about someone being better it really just would be something different. Good luck!! Last edited by OhGeesh; 05-27-2012 at 06:27 PM.