| | Re: I want my wife back but she is so hard on me
Thank you for your words. They really helped to feel better. Let me clarify, the naked pictures were for her exboyfriend, I knew about her crush with another guy in January, and according to her, she just started dating this new guy one month after our separation. I am sure I am missing a lot of information (I remember phrases before xmas that she told me when rejecting me such as “go and get a lover”.)
She agreed to go to counseling but in our first meeting she said “there is nothing to do I want the divorce”. The rest of the meetings have been to talk about small conflicts that she makes big. A two minute conversation in the phone with her causes 40 minutes of therapy.
One of her reasons for the divorce according to her is that I was controlling her. I do not see how. She did what she wanted during our whole marriage. She left town when she wanted (she was jobless) to visit her family, she went out with (even male) friends, and she went to school whenever she decided to do so. I really trusted her.
No, it is not mediation yet. We will try to agree with the psychologist and if it does not work (as I expect it) we will try to agree about the mediator.
After divorce, she will have to be in charge of the baby because as I said I am not able to state in the state.
About her boyfriend, it is hard for me to believe that there is a man interested in a woman with less that a year old baby and with a husband asking her for an opportunity.