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arbitrator · 05-27-2012, 10:40 PM

At least half-a-dozen times per day. I've always been one to ask her questions or for her advice, most that would only require a "yes or no," or at the extreme, a very short answer. I just kept on getting those same belittling, caustic, and sarcastic answers from her to the effect of "I already told you that," "you already know the answer to that," or the ever rich "why don't you just try thinking outside the box."

Add to that another hurtful cliche of hers, "looks like you need to get your hearing tested again!"(I actually did one time to shut her up and the ENT MD found me to be fine~ then she started questioning his credentials!

Separated now, for a little over a year, we rarely communicate, more especially given the recent start of divorce litigation!

05-27-2012, 10:40 PM	#12 (permalink)
arbitrator Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Central Texas/Brazos Valley Posts: 2,985	Re: What is your hurt frequency? At least half-a-dozen times per day. I've always been one to ask her questions or for her advice, most that would only require a "yes or no," or at the extreme, a very short answer. I just kept on getting those same belittling, caustic, and sarcastic answers from her to the effect of "I already told you that," "you already know the answer to that," or the ever rich "why don't you just try thinking outside the box." Add to that another hurtful cliche of hers, "looks like you need to get your hearing tested again!"(I actually did one time to shut her up and the ENT MD found me to be fine~ then she started questioning his credentials! Separated now, for a little over a year, we rarely communicate, more especially given the recent start of divorce litigation! __________________ "To love another person is to see the face of God!" - Jean Valjean from Les Miserables http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-t...andonment.html Last edited by arbitrator; 05-28-2012 at 07:35 AM.