| | Re: Wife still brings up 20 year old problems...
I'm no expert but, I can relate to this in a way becasue I do this myself. (Bring up old issues). Reason I do it becasause I nevver got closure at the time. ITs often minor details in hindsight but nevertheless, at the time, it was upsetting and I confronted her about 'the issue' before and after the event becasue I thought it was out of order but never got an apology. Mostly these days I will bring it up at the time, usually not get anywhewre with it then mentally file it away with a mental note of 'Dont waste your time with this one, lifes too short.
Seems like your wife has issues with dealing with this event in your life. if its as simple as you describe and it still is mentioned then there is clearly one of 2 things (A) something else aside from the photsos and discussion at the time and there has been no closure (B) mental issues with inability to let go, accept, move on.