Originally Posted by ABeautifulDisaster
My question to you would be this.....How many of these "cosmetic" issues were hers? The way you type them all out I found myself asking how many of these problems were hers versus those that were yours that you imposed upon her? When I read your post it made me wonder if she knew how unhappy you were with her appearance? I'm thinking she did.....but hey I might be wrong...so I will ask first. =)
Well, I did encourage her to get her teeth fixed. But by the time she did it we were already together for over 13 years at that point, so it really didn't matter to me either way. We had the funds and that was one issue that had bothered her for her entire life. I wanted her to do it solely to help her self-esteem.
As for her weight issues, I never once commented on it. She did that all on her own.