Thread: mid-life??
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Old 05-04-2008, 10:51 PM   #4 (permalink)
GAsoccerman
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Default Re: mid-life??

I am with Immortalone, I think he is going through some Depression bouts, I have done this as well a few days I am in the Dumper, I want to Run away from my life and go be a single bar tender on a tropical Island....has nothing to do with my wife, or my wonderful kids, it's me.

You see I am 38, wife 37, 3 great kids.

I miss my youth, my wild days of the 20's the Partying, the good times with friends.

Now I work, take care of my family, go to bed... "this is my life?" for the REST of MY LIFE?? It's a tough though on the "wild young man" that lives with in our souls as men. I want to Be "crazy" have fun, etc.

But I know if a wait a few days I am out of my funk, I call it my male period. LOL usually ahppens right after my wife finishes her Period...almost all the time. I just think it is a hormonal thing. But I have realized it and come to terms with it, so I don't need meds. I just wait it out, so does my wife.

So what can you do to help this out??

A. if your Hubby ahs a good group of guys friends that he can hang out with, Suggest they do a Boys weekend or a boys night out, Whoop it up and have a wild time. I know guys that do this, they plan "get away Weekends" same for some female friends, A little RR time. It's healthy.

B. if you are like me and my wife, where we LIKE to be together for our wild times, Plan on a date night, Not just dinner and a movie, Something a little wilder and more exciting. Buy a Sexy dress, make yourself up, Go dancing or some wild event with him, something you would not normally do.

C. do something a little extra special for your hubby when you are both home alone, Clean the house ina french maid costume, or something, be a little naughty with him...a little wild.

One time me and my wife went to Dinner, She suggested we go to a strip club, I was udderly shocked, but took her, because she wanted to know what they were like, so we went, she watched went on, no big deal....We got Home, She decided she was going to do a little strip routine for me and a give e a "special" lap dance.....You know it being my wife was 1000% hotter then a stripper could ever do, plus I could touch!

So as men we have these periods of time where we feel our youth slipping away, we are getting older and we have to come to terms with it. I think this is your hubby, see what you can do to spice things up a bit, search the internet in your area for some fun wild things for you to do.
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