Originally Posted by Gator2012
We have discussed the cruel things said regarding the sexual aspects of the affair many times. The above quoted post captures the essence of "why". I don't want this topic discussed on this public forum, so please respect that and drop it now.
She isn't answerable to us. She has to answer to you. We don't matter in your marriage, we just point out the questions so that they aren't swept under the rug. She could have just said that I've discussed this with my H and he is satisfied with my answer and people would have respected that and stopped the questions. She seemed to avoid/ignore important questions through out the thread and isn't saying much beyond "I messed up" and this pissed off people even further who were worried if it was false R