Originally Posted by lovelygirl
What a stupid, childish b!tch your wife is!
Waking you up for a ridiculous reason, leaving the house without saying anything, being mad at you and scream for no reason.. and other annoying things she does at you..
Who is she to treat you like that and walk over you??
I hate women who don't respect their devoted husbands.
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this.
Yes, in essence the guy’s dealing with the equivalent of a spunky six year old girl yet to be taught manners, propriety and decorum or a truly grudge holding, chip on their shoulder hate the world victim personality teenager.
Unfortunately unlike the father of such a daughter, as her husband he has absolutely no way of punishing her for her seriously abusive behaviour. Unless he withdraws into a 180 and stops providing the services he provides. But that’s seriously difficult because to stop paying the bills, paying for food etc. has all sorts of unwanted consequences. But at the very least going into the 180 will protect him from his wife’s emotionally abusive behaviour.
To protect himself I’d recommend he goes into the 180 and get a good understanding of, grip on and assertion of personal boundaries. Once he’s walking that path he will calm down internally such that peace and comfort enters inside of him and he will see things for what they really are perhaps for the very first time.