Originally Posted by ReadyForAChange
So My husband said "forget it" since we were starving by that time. I asked him if we would come back to the reataurant to buy one of my favoritea desserts at least but he said he didnt know with an irritated look. By that time he was getting irritated. We went to the next restaurant and they told us that the wait time would be 1 hour 45 mins. By this time it was obvious he was irritated. So I asked him "what do we do? Should we wait or go look for another restaurant?"
You seem to be very deferential to your husband. Why can't you make the decision? I know that my wife wouldn't 'ask' me as though I was her father, she would make a suggestion and we would talk about it.
Maybe the pressure of always having to make the decisions is what caused him to get irritated?