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GAsoccerman · 05-05-2008, 02:27 AM

Interesting, I really do not think Porn is the issue. I ahve a huge folder of Porn, women in Bikini's etc on my PC in folder. I ahve it hidden from my children in a secure folder "password protected" But my wife knows it's there. I also have been getting Playboy for YEARS, actually my wife bought the subscription for me for Christmas, even got a bonus video! I have porn, plenty of it. But I am not 'addicted to it" I watch it when I am home alone or with my wife sometimes. I even take hot sexy pics of my wife with our digital camera and I have a HUGE folder of pics of just her in various outfits, She likes to pose for me, because she knows I am visual, it turns her on knowing that I get Turned on by viewing her pictures.

I just really do not see anything wrong with porn. I have no interest in other women, I only wish to have sex with my wife, plus porn is so unrealistic that it's almost laughable, no man can last that long. It's called Splicing scenes.

Anyway, I think you have bigeer issues, What they are I have no Idea, but it seems the porn was your "trigger" and your using that as your excuse.

What is the real issue? Why do you not like your husband? Do you have post pardom depression? Did you argue before your son was born or Pregnant, your hormones change with pregancy and do not always go back to normal, maybe a year after words...Are you nursing? My wife nurse each of our kids for a year each (3 kids)

You guys really need to talk this out, civilly, he is getting frustrated because he wants to be with you and please you, but it seems he can do nothing right in your eyes.

Everyman views porn in some way, it's our nature. You husband can be A LOT worse of a person, A drunk, an Abuser, A drug Addict, A crimminal, A cheater, A closet homosexual, Whatever.....

think about it. Work it out. Seek counseling if you need to.

But it sounds to me like your hormones got the best of you, I been through three pregancies with my wife...I've been through some weird stuff with her, But I always loved her, and she always loved me, so we worked through both our issues. I am not perfect either.

I like naked women....She bacame my model, I like Porn, We made home made porn together, Which I RATHER watch then the professionals, because my wife is Georgous and I love everything about her. I is also thrillinng to her, that I "drool" over her, even after being together 18 years.

05-05-2008, 02:27 AM	#6 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 571	Re: I really don't know what to do... Interesting, I really do not think Porn is the issue. I ahve a huge folder of Porn, women in Bikini's etc on my PC in folder. I ahve it hidden from my children in a secure folder "password protected" But my wife knows it's there. I also have been getting Playboy for YEARS, actually my wife bought the subscription for me for Christmas, even got a bonus video! I have porn, plenty of it. But I am not 'addicted to it" I watch it when I am home alone or with my wife sometimes. I even take hot sexy pics of my wife with our digital camera and I have a HUGE folder of pics of just her in various outfits, She likes to pose for me, because she knows I am visual, it turns her on knowing that I get Turned on by viewing her pictures. I just really do not see anything wrong with porn. I have no interest in other women, I only wish to have sex with my wife, plus porn is so unrealistic that it's almost laughable, no man can last that long. It's called Splicing scenes. Anyway, I think you have bigeer issues, What they are I have no Idea, but it seems the porn was your "trigger" and your using that as your excuse. What is the real issue? Why do you not like your husband? Do you have post pardom depression? Did you argue before your son was born or Pregnant, your hormones change with pregancy and do not always go back to normal, maybe a year after words...Are you nursing? My wife nurse each of our kids for a year each (3 kids) You guys really need to talk this out, civilly, he is getting frustrated because he wants to be with you and please you, but it seems he can do nothing right in your eyes. Everyman views porn in some way, it's our nature. You husband can be A LOT worse of a person, A drunk, an Abuser, A drug Addict, A crimminal, A cheater, A closet homosexual, Whatever..... think about it. Work it out. Seek counseling if you need to. But it sounds to me like your hormones got the best of you, I been through three pregancies with my wife...I've been through some weird stuff with her, But I always loved her, and she always loved me, so we worked through both our issues. I am not perfect either. I like naked women....She bacame my model, I like Porn, We made home made porn together, Which I RATHER watch then the professionals, because my wife is Georgous and I love everything about her. I is also thrillinng to her, that I "drool" over her, even after being together 18 years.