| | Re: Help me save our marriage!
Do you have low self esteem? Do you think very little of yourself? If so, you will continue to stay with this man because you base your self worth/love on what this man can do for you. He bosses you around and you have said several time in your post, "He makes me" No actually he doesn't make you, I'm sure you do it out of fear which is bad enough.
IMO if you want to work things out and so does he it needs to be done without you being in the home right now. Two people can work on things with a counselor without you remaining in the home. To get you out of the shower to tend to the baby because he doesn't want to is by far ridiculous. Not to mention all the other things you have stated.
Find a nice safe place for you and your child and begin to work on seeking out a counselor. Either to help repair the marriage or at least get some advice on getting out of it, which sounds like a better option to me.
"When people are truly sick and tired of being sick and tired, that's when they will make a change."