| | Re: dont know what to do
Isn't not exposing her affair enabling the behavior? Exposing proves that it is indeed shameful behavior she is indulging in.
CF, believe us. Just take this leap of faith. Don't engage the wife. She is evil. Expose to her family first. Then yours. Then mutual friends. If the OM is involved , his family and parents too.
If she comes back after that, you might have a chance to repair. This marriage is already dead. You already lost this marriage and she does not have one tiny bit of respect anyway.