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Chopblock · 05-05-2008, 08:01 AM

Juls:

I'd love to hear more details about the specifics of your resolution.

1) Do you believe he would have followed through if you had not returned? Ie: if you, during said month, decided not to get back together, would he have done the divorce thing?

2) Do you ever think he wonders whether or not you were sincere in getting back together? I have considered telling gf I'm calling it quits, and following through. However there would always be a doubt in my mind if she came back about whether she really wanted me, or just didn't want to be without the house/car/benefits...

3) What was the vulnerability that you felt you were afraid to give in to?

I am not far from being forced to make the same ultimatum myself. I don't want to, but I don't see anything else carrying the necessary weight.

05-05-2008, 08:01 AM	#17 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 173	Re: Almost sexless marriage Juls: I'd love to hear more details about the specifics of your resolution. 1) Do you believe he would have followed through if you had not returned? Ie: if you, during said month, decided not to get back together, would he have done the divorce thing? 2) Do you ever think he wonders whether or not you were sincere in getting back together? I have considered telling gf I'm calling it quits, and following through. However there would always be a doubt in my mind if she came back about whether she really wanted me, or just didn't want to be without the house/car/benefits... 3) What was the vulnerability that you felt you were afraid to give in to? I am not far from being forced to make the same ultimatum myself. I don't want to, but I don't see anything else carrying the necessary weight.