| | Re: should i cheat?
Grisha, honey, you don't want counseling. "one was creepy, and the second one was focusing on small unimportant things."
Are you sure they were small unimportant things? Really? You have training?
You want out. That's fine. That's completely acceptable. But just do it. Don't cat around until he leaves you. Take responsibility for your own emotions and your own actions, and just leave.