Originally Posted by grisha
I did tell him that I felt like cheating, and he didn't take me seriously. He didn't believe that I would actually do it.
We've tried counselling - two of them, but didn't like either. One was creepy, and the second one was focusing on small unimportant things.
Sometimes the urge for sexual expression can completely eliminate sound judgment and result in rash decisions that are often regretted later in life. Every time you have the urge to leave, there is probably something stopping you. That something is usually "sound judgment". Often times that moment is the best time to follow your gut. Is it telling you to run? Or is there significant hesitation? I would follow your gut...