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Originally Posted by Chopblock
Mommy22, you specifically said "make love to my husband whenever he wants".
Why do you do this? How did things get to be this way? I have often asserted that the sexiest thing a woman can do in bed is WANT to be there. Clearly, you want to be there, and you are choosing to do so.
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You may not like my answer to this one. I've always given him what he wants sexually. However, over the years, he didn't reciprocate in the ways I needed him. He (admittedly) neglected my needs. We both had to hit rock bottom in our relationship to selflessly REALLY DESIRE to please one another. It took a serious wake-up call for us both. As diffilcult as the process has been, I'm so thankful for it because we love each other with a much deeper love than we could've ever imagined. We're still in the recovery stage, but we have the communication that I have longed for. We're genuinely excited about our future together. So yes, I really WANT to be in bed next to him now!