Re: Do women really want what they want?
I can only think you mean Pumice stones which are used for pedicures & to remove calluses.
IMHO it means more of why she thinks you are doing it. If you are doing it "just to get her to sleep with you" then yeah I could see why it really doesn't matter.
Communication is only good when you connect with the person you talk to. Everyone is different and there are many different ways to communicate a point to them.
If your SO isn't having sex with you then chances are it is either medical or something deep seated that hasn't been communicated normally because that person doesn't feel comfortable talking about the subject.
Everything seems to boil down to the same point, everything else "seems" good except sex. At this point I think you need to look again at your relationship and see if it is really problem free or if there is a true problem there, because I think there is.
But my point was and is that your problem is unique to you, and that you can't paint all women with a broad brush. Every person is different.
draconis
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