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Chelle D · 05-29-2012, 06:45 PM

Ya know hun... I'm not sure if I'm in the situation you mean.. (no cheating on either of our parts.. but i'm trying to be a better wife).

I would say definetly start to talk about it tonite. Tell him that you meant it not in a sexual way, just a emotional/ cuddling re-bonding way. But, if he balks away from even talking about it, than maybe that conversation needs shelved for a week or two??

Maybe he was stressed thinking about work for the next day? I mean... with my Hubby's job, I've learned that the last night of a long 3 or 4 day weekend.. is NOT the best time to talk to him. It's almost like his mind shuts off & he's trying to gear himself up for the overload of work the next day, that he "knows" is coming.

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Chelle D Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Middle USA Posts: 899	Re: Neverending balancing act.... Ya know hun... I'm not sure if I'm in the situation you mean.. (no cheating on either of our parts.. but i'm trying to be a better wife). I would say definetly start to talk about it tonite. Tell him that you meant it not in a sexual way, just a emotional/ cuddling re-bonding way. But, if he balks away from even talking about it, than maybe that conversation needs shelved for a week or two?? Maybe he was stressed thinking about work for the next day? I mean... with my Hubby's job, I've learned that the last night of a long 3 or 4 day weekend.. is NOT the best time to talk to him. It's almost like his mind shuts off & he's trying to gear himself up for the overload of work the next day, that he "knows" is coming.