Originally Posted by Notcoping
I realize that I left a lot of stuff out.. My mind is all over the place. If you want more information ask and I will fill in the blanks.
Nothing more needs to be explained. She is a serial cheater that has cheated on you more than once and blame shifts so that you think that it is your fault. No one is perfect yet that is the standard that she judges you by. You could not win because she did not want you to win and you let her be the prosecutor, judge, and jury. Bottom line is that she as been dating during your marraige and found someone else and amazingly has you thinking that it is your fault. It is not your fault. Man up and move on. She is not worth it.
Serial cheaters have a false sense of superiority because they are the ones that have someone else, but the truth is that you are the good person because you have values. Trust me when I say that there is someone out their for you that will appreciate you for the good person that you are. Do you want to know how I know that you are a good person? I know because a good person is always willing to accept blame and try to do better; cheaters exploit this.
Again, move on and and good luck to you.