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Old 05-30-2012, 03:45 AM   #3 (permalink)
warlock07
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No you shouldn't get back with him. People change but he isn't even acknowledging the abuse. And he is trying to guilt your for him stopping the anger management?

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He says he needs my help to get through anger managment, but since I'm leaving, he's decided there is no point in continuing the program.
This is very very very manipulative. Don't fall for it.

And him pointing out that his mother endured abuse is even worse. he had a bad role model and he is continuing the cycle.

And he has some f*cked up ideas about abuse. It isn't abuse if he doesn't do it regularly? Give me a break

I think Nsweet is way off the mark here and is trying to guilt you back into the relationship.
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