| | Re: Getting Past Abuse
I am a child of an abusive alcoholic father. For 35 years my mother, my siblings and myself dealt with physical and mental abuse. It will affect your child. At the age of almost 41 it has affected my life and I ultimately believe my marriage in many ways. I'm not abusive myself but I believe its contributed to trust issues and other psychological issues.. My oldest sister is abusive and an alcoholic.
Someone like that has to acknowledge their problem and they have to want to get help.
I know its hard but please I watched my mother go through this abuse well into my 20's until he passed away. Dont do this to yourself and especially your child.
I do believe people can change but he has to acknowledge it and get help.
I will pray for you.
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