Originally Posted by iheartlife
Is she on facebook a lot? Does she use the computer a lot? From what I recall, you check her phone bill and you don't see her texting or calling anyone disproportionately, right?
We have Verizon. Verizon lets you go in and analyze usage. I was able to find alternate numbers for my husband's affair partner because they were on his most called #'s list. These alternate numbers were called less than my numbers, but not as much as his affair partner's primary cell phone.
Just wondering if you see any odd patterns in the calling, even if you know all the numbers she's calling.
What some people have done is install a keylogger on their home computer. It records keystrokes. You would be able to see if she has a secret email account, etc.
Does she work outside the home? Is there anyone she's mentioned a lot at first and then stopped talking about? Do you have mutual male friends that she spends time with? Has she acted oddly around you and any men in your lives when you are both present?
She actually deleted her Facebook a month or so ago. There was one # that was called a lot in December/jan but now I only occasionally see it. She works outside the home. It seems like in the past few months she feels the need to go out more. She said something like she doesn't want to sit around all the time. As far as mentioning other people she does not.
I know those are some signs but I still don't think anything is going on. Maybe there was an EA back in Dec/Jan that stopped, this is when she started acting a little different. Than again it could be the realization that major surgery was comming. Posted via Mobile Device