swedish

"The fact that you still sleep in the same bed with your ex-wife, that you say you want to keep things least disruptive possible for your son, that you are keeping the annulment and our relationship a secret all indicate to me that you have a lot of things to work out in your personal life before you can make a decision to marry me and leave the country"....that would be how...if by how you mean you don't know how to get the strength/courage to leave without him picture being in the states with him and suddenly he's gone for a week and returns and has many excuses for why he had to take off and this and that and you say 'I'm devastated but I love him so I'll let it slide'....if you really want him in your life at any cost, go for it...but as said before, I really think you are setting the bar way too low.