Originally Posted by husbanddoug
She is not talking to him on phone at all. It is only text messages and occasionally FB messages.
She needs to let you see them, if they are harmless then there should be nothing to hide and if she respects your marriage she will do what she can to appease you.
A man fresh from a D is going to want to hook up, I would be concern about his motivations. What she is doing is inappropriate for a married woman and needs to come clean asap. Do not tolerate her hiding communications with him.