Originally Posted by lost soul
It does not sound like there is much love in your relationship. It sounds like there is a lot of pain and resentment that is bring you down. If you stopped cleaning and cooking to teach him a lesson it seems like that hurts you more than him cause well we're guy's. And going into the field your going into at the position your looking for you got to be extremely strong and cut throat cause every time you turn your back they're gonna be staring at your ass or talking about it. So to have some fool at home putting you down will do nothing to boost your moral.
And you sound like a strong woman so I think you'll do fine in your new career
I didn't stop cooking and stuff to punish him I did it because he lives here also so he can pitch in around the house and help instead of it all being my responsibility because I'm the wife. You're right about having to be tough to make it in my career field, it's double the work and time to prove that I know what I'm doing and not looking for an easy ride.