 Re: What to do?
You are shooting yourself and your marriage in the foot.
You are so busy with your job and school that you and your husband are not spending time to reinforce your relationship, in short you are neglecting each other.
You have set up a no win situation. You won't have sex with him because of his moods and the lack of emotional connection, yet you aren't around enough him with energy and passion to build the emotional connection. You are also undermining your goal of having a happier emotionally connected husband by cutting him off from sex. Sex is one of the key elements men need to build the emotional bond and be safe, loved. And happy.
Wonder why women feel the drive to put out during courtship? It's nature helping them build an emotional bond to thrm in their man.
So you cut him off from a key part of him feeling positive and emotional connected, and then you made it worse by cutting out quality couple time.
No wonder you guys aren't feeling it.
The sad thing is you have they key to fixing this, and it's a key you would be having to use in a new relationship if you D. So why not save the grief of D ,and use the key now with him?
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