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pigpen · 05-05-2008, 09:32 PM

Chopblock - I agree on the general principals of your comments. However, having been down this road i will say one must be prepared for everything to back fire.

In my own situation I still do 90% of the household chores. I tried not doing his stuff. But all I got was a dirtier house and "cant you just be happy - ignore it"

The only advice I have is to realize that some situations are not good for us to be in. "love" is not enough. Do what you can and know what point to walk away. I never did learn the point to walk away. Saying "well, we are still married." really isnt enough either.

No matter what you do, succeed or fail, only do what you know you can live with emotionally and from your own standards. DO NOT compromise on your standards ever. Not for love and not for marriage.

05-05-2008, 09:32 PM	#9 (permalink)
pigpen Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 46	Re: Tired of everything Chopblock - I agree on the general principals of your comments. However, having been down this road i will say one must be prepared for everything to back fire. In my own situation I still do 90% of the household chores. I tried not doing his stuff. But all I got was a dirtier house and "cant you just be happy - ignore it" The only advice I have is to realize that some situations are not good for us to be in. "love" is not enough. Do what you can and know what point to walk away. I never did learn the point to walk away. Saying "well, we are still married." really isnt enough either. No matter what you do, succeed or fail, only do what you know you can live with emotionally and from your own standards. DO NOT compromise on your standards ever. Not for love and not for marriage.