heatbrokenmom

I have just come back from something like this and I think I was lucky to nip it as it was just in the stage 1 period. my husband met someone online and since we are having marital issues he started talking to her. From mid feb thru early april he was texting and calling her almost everyday. since he was not really talking to me and not happy with me I looked at our cell bill one day and found the same number listed multiple times. I confronted him, he said that it was just someone to talk to and that's all. I told him that it had to stop THAT DAY! I was not going to stand for it, that it was wrong and he crossed over the line. I felt betrayed and if he really cared for me he would stop it now. There's been no more calls since that day and even though he told me there was nothing going on I still felt threatened and betrayed. You need to have him cut all ties with this woman now. If he loves you and cares for your feelings then he will do that for you. You should be the most important thing and if something is really bothering you, whatever it is, he should give it up and let it go. For you and your relationship.