Re: hi im new to this and need advice desperately
You ned to land somewhere in the middle of the two extremes. Ask him to take the kids for the day and I am sure they will let him know in there own way they miss him. Beyond that I think the counciling may very well help you but I think you need to find the root of your problem and see if there is some way to fix it. More often then not people just don't fall out of love, there can be a single reason or many.
Don't cry, complain or lay blame on him. Simply ask what he sees wrong and what you can do about fixing it.
Has there been signs of problems such as Arguments over stuff lately?
draconis
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