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GAsoccerman · 05-05-2008, 10:58 PM

Sorry to hear this...

Sounds like your marriage is dead. Time to move on and find happiness.

Do you have any family? Do you have any skills to gain employment? Ie degree of some sort, any employment back round?

When you file for a divorce, A police officer will deliver the papers to him, and the police will be there when he "leaves the house" He will have to vacate the premise when the papers are delivered. Your bank account will be split 50/50 from the moment of the filing.

I recommend, finding a lawyer, tell him your situation, and go from there.

My father died when i was 1 year old, my mother had No Job, never worked, and had 5 kids, this was in the 1970's so there was no day care, no other support out there. If she survived, you can as well, I grew up in a happy household, you can provide the same for your son.

Tell your husband you want a divorce, but you want to be civil for your son's sake.

Take it from there.

as I tell my kids, you always have an option, you always have a choice, there is No, I can't, you can, make it happen.

do what is BEST FOR YOU!

Good luck

Plus I don't think "chop" was picking on your vocabulary, i think he was just tryingt o get a better understanding of what you were describing. IE making sure he read it right.

05-05-2008, 10:58 PM	#5 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 238	Re: multiple problems Sorry to hear this... Sounds like your marriage is dead. Time to move on and find happiness. Do you have any family? Do you have any skills to gain employment? Ie degree of some sort, any employment back round? When you file for a divorce, A police officer will deliver the papers to him, and the police will be there when he "leaves the house" He will have to vacate the premise when the papers are delivered. Your bank account will be split 50/50 from the moment of the filing. I recommend, finding a lawyer, tell him your situation, and go from there. My father died when i was 1 year old, my mother had No Job, never worked, and had 5 kids, this was in the 1970's so there was no day care, no other support out there. If she survived, you can as well, I grew up in a happy household, you can provide the same for your son. Tell your husband you want a divorce, but you want to be civil for your son's sake. Take it from there. as I tell my kids, you always have an option, you always have a choice, there is No, I can't, you can, make it happen. do what is BEST FOR YOU! Good luck Plus I don't think "chop" was picking on your vocabulary, i think he was just tryingt o get a better understanding of what you were describing. IE making sure he read it right.