Re: multiple problems
I'm so sorry that you've got to this stage and feel that you have no options.
However, you always have options. If you feel that your marraige is dead and you can't expect it to improve whatever you do then you need to make the decision to end it, or put up with it for the next 18. You might decide to stick it out till your child is old enough to fly the nest, but I personally think you'd be better to quit now, before relations between his parents start to affect his own happiness.
What would happen if you told your husband you wanted to seperate? He may be as unhappy as you are. You're assuming that you'll have to make it on your own, but you might find that he'd be happy to help you. If he cares at all for his child, then he's going to want to see him comfortable at the very least.
I don't know the ins and outs of child support, but I'd get yourself some legal advice asap so that you know where to start.
good luck, you'll make it if you want to.
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