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oregonmom · 05-31-2012, 06:09 PM

Thanks Kurosity
I've written down where I feel like he has contricted himself or TTed me, but I haven't gone through it with him yet. I feel like it is a waste of my time until he can understand why TT is going to kill our relationship. I have attempted giving one or two examples to him (like the text I shared) and he denys he is doing it. We are in MC and I have brought it up there a few times but no one seems to get through to him, he thinks he is doing a good job telling the truth. Do you think I should just go ahead with what I have written?

I'm sure that is exactly what the OW was doing. But then comes in the end part of his text "stuff like that". Stuff like when you are going to hook up next? Stuff like you are looking hot today? Whatever it was about doesn't really matter, just tell me the whole truth.

He is NC with her, since D-day as far as I know. She hasn't worked there for 10 months or so.

05-31-2012, 06:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
oregonmom Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 166	Re: Effort and trickle truth Thanks Kurosity I've written down where I feel like he has contricted himself or TTed me, but I haven't gone through it with him yet. I feel like it is a waste of my time until he can understand why TT is going to kill our relationship. I have attempted giving one or two examples to him (like the text I shared) and he denys he is doing it. We are in MC and I have brought it up there a few times but no one seems to get through to him, he thinks he is doing a good job telling the truth. Do you think I should just go ahead with what I have written? I'm sure that is exactly what the OW was doing. But then comes in the end part of his text "stuff like that". Stuff like when you are going to hook up next? Stuff like you are looking hot today? Whatever it was about doesn't really matter, just tell me the whole truth. He is NC with her, since D-day as far as I know. She hasn't worked there for 10 months or so.