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Chopblock · 05-06-2008, 08:04 AM

You know what you want, but does she really know what she wants? What you need is HER answer to the question "do you want to save this"?

She could be going through a rough patch. Everyone does, you've had them before. The problem is, that if you are the only one working to save things, you will get frustrated and you will be wasting your time..

I think your date idea is good and hopefully it rekindles something. Other things to consider are what it was that got you together in the first place, and interests you share. Ask her what she wants out of life, what are her dreams. Build some goals together.

Maybe she feels things just aren't "going" anywhere and need more direction.

Best of luck.

05-06-2008, 08:04 AM	#2 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 88	Re: HELP! Marriage on the brink of divorce, You know what you want, but does she really know what she wants? What you need is HER answer to the question "do you want to save this"? She could be going through a rough patch. Everyone does, you've had them before. The problem is, that if you are the only one working to save things, you will get frustrated and you will be wasting your time.. I think your date idea is good and hopefully it rekindles something. Other things to consider are what it was that got you together in the first place, and interests you share. Ask her what she wants out of life, what are her dreams. Build some goals together. Maybe she feels things just aren't "going" anywhere and need more direction. Best of luck.