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Chopblock · 05-06-2008, 08:22 AM

I was not picking on you, I'm not here to feel superior. Lets move on to what you've said

**"I want to leave. That is my choice."

OK, having made that choice, lets figure out how to make it happen.

The first thing to do is to be familiar with the laws of your state. A lot of the stuff that GASoccermom said may or may not be true where you are -- you need to be certain of what your rights are.

Talk to as many attorneys as you can before serving your husband with papers. I believe once you speak to an attorney, that attorney cannot speak to your husband -- at least not right away. It ensures you get the best pick.

Once you've talked to attorneys, ask your husband if the divorce can be amiable. You say you don't have much, but after a divorce you'll have absolutely nothing. If you guys can separate without it being too costly, so much the better.

Don't be afraid to look into shelters and other support groups available for women in your position. There is no shame in seeking help.

Best of luck.

05-06-2008, 08:22 AM	#7 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 173	Re: multiple problems I was not picking on you, I'm not here to feel superior. Lets move on to what you've said **"I want to leave. That is my choice." OK, having made that choice, lets figure out how to make it happen. The first thing to do is to be familiar with the laws of your state. A lot of the stuff that GASoccermom said may or may not be true where you are -- you need to be certain of what your rights are. Talk to as many attorneys as you can before serving your husband with papers. I believe once you speak to an attorney, that attorney cannot speak to your husband -- at least not right away. It ensures you get the best pick. Once you've talked to attorneys, ask your husband if the divorce can be amiable. You say you don't have much, but after a divorce you'll have absolutely nothing. If you guys can separate without it being too costly, so much the better. Don't be afraid to look into shelters and other support groups available for women in your position. There is no shame in seeking help. Best of luck.