swedish

I think you should focus on the problems you say you've been having in your marriage that got you both to this point. If you can really see your role in how things got to where they are and that there are things you could have been doing differently and now would like to, focus on those in counseling and every day life. If he is just fed up with the status quo and doesn't see you wanting to make things different he won't think any differently than he is now. In some cases, it's too little too late for the relationship but it's never too late to make positive changes for yourself so in that sense, it will only help you to look within yourself to make positive change.