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Originally Posted by josie68
I believe him, but when I asked him to stop he said he can not promise he won't contact her. He says he wants to work on us, but wants me to move completely out during this process. The house was his when we got married.
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I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. I personally think (and pretty sure the law agrees) that once you married, this is now your home as well. You are not a piece of furniture he added and is now unsure whether he wants it so he'll put it in the garage for now. If he has feelings for this woman and is questioning his feelings for you, his wife, keeping in contact with her is anything but 'working on us' as he says he wants to.
If he cannot commit to ending contact with her and working on your marriage, he should be the one to leave. He seems very self-absorbed with what he wants at the moment at the expense of your feelings and vows you made to one another.