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krisam · 06-01-2012, 06:34 PM

My problem is that i am so alone in trying to make the most difficult decision in my life and i need your help...My husband is the most controlling, bullying, hateful person i have ever come across even my/his children cant bare him any more.

I am ready to ask for a divorce but am so scared of the reaction i will get. I have been controlled by him and his narcissistic ways for over 23 years and i really am at the end of my tether.

I have been physically and constantly verbally abused for some time now, i had to call the police last year when he thought it was as good idea to smack my head on the concrete floor, but as i am sure a lot of people know - they say sorry and it will never happen again! (the police did want to prosecute but i did not want to take it any further as it may ruin him)

I am fed up with being the last thought in our relationship, i am fed up with not being spoken to with some respect, i am fed up with it all being about this so called man.

I could write a book on his abusive behaviour, but I would never disclose his name - WHY ?

I am sH1t in his eyes, so please please tell me WHY i still put up with this crap...

06-01-2012, 06:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
krisam Registered User Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 1	i am so alone My problem is that i am so alone in trying to make the most difficult decision in my life and i need your help...My husband is the most controlling, bullying, hateful person i have ever come across even my/his children cant bare him any more. I am ready to ask for a divorce but am so scared of the reaction i will get. I have been controlled by him and his narcissistic ways for over 23 years and i really am at the end of my tether. I have been physically and constantly verbally abused for some time now, i had to call the police last year when he thought it was as good idea to smack my head on the concrete floor, but as i am sure a lot of people know - they say sorry and it will never happen again! (the police did want to prosecute but i did not want to take it any further as it may ruin him) I am fed up with being the last thought in our relationship, i am fed up with not being spoken to with some respect, i am fed up with it all being about this so called man. I could write a book on his abusive behaviour, but I would never disclose his name - WHY ? I am sH1t in his eyes, so please please tell me WHY i still put up with this crap...