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Chopblock · 05-06-2008, 10:43 AM

I want to revisit these "lists" you mentioned in your original post. It sounds like you both received very clear bullet points of actions your partners want you to take.

You said you need to help with dishes, housework, listening, so on, so on, but have you actually IMPROVED in these areas? You mention the things she needs to improve on, but has she improved on anyone?

I may be taking this too logically because of my line of work, but when a client presents a list of evaluation criteria, I keep it in my hands at all times. This is no different than "giving the teacher what he/she wants". If you know your paper is going to be graded based on your knowledge of a, b, and c, then it is in your best interests to present substantial knowledge of a, b, and c.

05-06-2008, 10:43 AM	#4 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 161	Re: HELP! Marriage on the brink of divorce, I want to revisit these "lists" you mentioned in your original post. It sounds like you both received very clear bullet points of actions your partners want you to take. You said you need to help with dishes, housework, listening, so on, so on, but have you actually IMPROVED in these areas? You mention the things she needs to improve on, but has she improved on anyone? I may be taking this too logically because of my line of work, but when a client presents a list of evaluation criteria, I keep it in my hands at all times. This is no different than "giving the teacher what he/she wants". If you know your paper is going to be graded based on your knowledge of a, b, and c, then it is in your best interests to present substantial knowledge of a, b, and c.