hazel22

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i have taken the last couple weeks to seriously take a step back and really look deep in every aspect of the situation. the conclusion, he has been pushing for another child and i am not ready. i addressed him with the situation stating that im just not ready and why not having a another child right at this moment is important. he then went off the deep end on me saying, well talking in the "irritated tone", that if we dont have another one now then we might as well just not have anymore because it'll be too late.... our daughter will be 2 in a month ....so on. i truly believe now that i have addressed the situation it has confirmed everything for me, as to why this repulsive matter is happening. as of now we still dont have sex i have gotten over the repulsive matter for the most part, now we just have difference of opinions. but the issue now is he isnt even trying to have sex like it was a switch and suddenly its off? i am just confused. i talked with him about the why sex was just not interesting to me (i also believe i have some post part. depression) and i thought everything was going great but wrong! i guess time will only tell