swedish

I would guess that after 9 months of knowing you did not want sex, and now knowing you think it's because you don't want another child right now and letting him know that sex was just not interesting to you, that he now gets the hint and has backed off. It's good you are being honest about your feelings and trying to resolve this issue, but at this point I would think you need to initiate sex to get it back on track. He might be feeling that any advances he tries to make are unwanted.