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You have every reason to be upset. He is letting her impose herself and her daily troubles upon him. She gave up that privilege when she stopped being his wife.
He is putting her feelings and his relationship with her - as a higher priority than he is putting your feelings.
He should be empathizing with your feelings, and even more he should be seeing her as an EX, a person no longer in his day-day life. Yes he shares a 19 yr old with her. The 19 yr old is now a grown up, and while it is appropriate to occasionally talk about the 19 yr old - the rest of it all is way way crossing the line.
She's using him, and he's letting her do it.