Gaia

I will probably run into the same problem .. and this gives me a bit of an insight and yes i do feel like i don't want to compromise myself either. I feel like i need this, especially to boost my own self esteem. Before I had decided to go for the air force though.. i had planned on getting a degree to become a nurse. Now I was just thinking along the lines of... Well with that.. i can get a job anywhere .. but my hubby had been looking at how much a nurse would make and he became a bit competitive, showing a bit of jealousy in fact that i would have been making more in that line of work then he would in his. I had to assure him then that it wasn't about who makes more... it's about both of us working as a team to support our family and make a better life for the kids.