| | Re: emotional affair advice
I have told her that she needs to chose between two married men. She said that she chooses me no contest. As for what went on I feel like she has been honest. I'm in the criminal justice field and the first few conversations went more like an interrogation and I am comfortable with her truthfulness. I'm confident that it came out before anything physical happened. The only deceptiveness I have seen was the morning after she told me I asked her to call in sick to work and stay home which she did. I then left and went to work. The next morning I checked the phone records and saw that he sent her a text, she replied, then he sent another shortly after I went to work. I checked her phone and they had been deleted. I confronted her and she said that his said "you alive?" since she called in sick. She said that her reply was "yes" and his reply was "ok". I have no way to look at the texts but I bluffed her and said that I could. She remained adamant thats all they said. This conversation took place while she was getting ready for work on the day that she told him everything was over.