| | Re: emotional affair advice
Finally, install a keylogger on your home computer if you own it. Again, you marriage will be at risk if she stays at the job. That is her consequence for betraying the marriage. Give her a time limit to change jobs of her choosing. You cannot have her work at the same place as the OM. Either he quits or she quits. This is go bad unless you react fast.
Also continuing the friendship should be a deal breaker. Continuing a friendship with the guy who proposed to cheat on you is highly disrespectful. Tell her that she has more problems in her life like the marriage ending than to worry that things might get awkward at work. Actually that statement is pissing me off. You need to establish strong boundaries here. Ask her if she would like it if you remained friends with a woman who proposed to cheat with you.
Find a good marriage counselor. Your marriage is in deep sh!t
Last edited by warlock07; 06-02-2012 at 03:08 AM.