BlueCreek

It really is hard to hear someone going through a situation like yours. It sounds to me like the man has already decided to look for sparks with someone else and will only come back to you if he strikes out. Is all lost yet? Maybe not. But be careful that you don't let your love for him gloss over what he is putting you through even if he never actually has an affair. I'm not saying give up on him and what you have, but don't for second think it is acceptable for him to do this to you. If he were to just call you and ask you back tonight that doesn't mean you should go running back to him.

As everyone else has already said, you have rights to that home, regardless of whether he owned it before marrying you or not. He is the one wanting to explore, he should be the one to move out if space is what he feels you need. I would be wary that the reason he wants you out of the house is not for space from you, but space so that he can call whomever he wants whenever he wants or have someone over without you being in the way. I could be off base here, sometimes there is an honest need for distance, but if he is already calling and talking to another woman, I would be wary of his real intentions with telling you to move out.

The big thing for me is that this is a marriage in serious trouble, regardless of how much love you have for him. I would immediately look into professional marriage counseling, because if he is serious about saving your marriage, he should be open to that.