Originally Posted by ninjatastic
I love my wife and hate to see her unhappy.
OK, I can understand that.
What you need to establish is if your wife feels the same way about you. Does SHE love YOU and does she hate to see you unhappy?
Or does she think: "Oh, that's my husband. He'll just get over it"?
You wife was carrying a heavy burden of guilt but she's OK now, as she has found someone else to carry it for her! Oh. That'd be you, then!
You need MC, I think.