| | Re: I know this is childish but i dont wanna give them back..
Im going to give them back, im just going to take the pictures of me and my son and the pictures of him and our son (that i paid for!) and keep them for our son.
I am meeting him half way, not to give him the pictures but because he has only saw our 6 month old once and he hasnt seen our 3 1/2 year old (or our 6 month old) in 6 months. He is about to get kicked out of the army and my counselor and i have discussed the situation and she said the same thing ive thought all along - eventually he wont come around anymore. I want my 6 month old to meet his dad and my 3 1/2 year old misses his dad and cries for him often. It isnt about what he's done to me, its about my kids. I didnt have a dad growing up and it is important to me that my kids have a dad.
Im not going to act childish....honestly i woke up today feeling like i just dont even care anymore. I thought id feel anxious and upset today since we are meeting tomorrow but i dont care.
Also, i am giving the pictures back and killing him with kindness, i do not need any ammo against me for him to bash me to his new girlfriend (yeah he did leave me for a girl, a teenager at that). But doing mean things just gives him ammo to bash me to her, and for her to be "perfect" in his eyes. After tomorrow im going completely dark (i already sorta have been. We have barely been talking) but tomorrow im not talking to him at all.