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Old 06-02-2012, 11:23 AM   #30 (permalink)
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Default Re: I can't lie here beside you, because you steal my soul when you are near.

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Originally Posted by iheartlife View Post
I wonder what percentage of BSs who take their cheaters back live to regret it--even with a WS who ends all cheating.

You know I reflect on this question a lot. In the midst of the discovery, when he was gone (at my request) and as I terrified and hurt as I was, there was a spark in my soul that imagined a life without him. A way to start over. A new beginning even though it was covered with fear, sadness and confusion.

Maybe it's a coping mechanism to deal with loss?? I hope I don't regret it overall but some days I damn sure do.

I would love to hear that stat as well.
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