| | Re: emotional affair advice
Hey Ninja---You got 2 things to deal with---1st----your wife decided that you, her vows and kids, are not that big a deal, so she went outside her mge, and told another man she likes him, which immediately brought a response from him to her---"I want you to spread your legs for me"----In all reality---she knows this guy from work only----SHE DOES NOT KNOW ONE THING ABOUT HIS PRIVATE LIFE---HE COULD BE ANY SORT OF SCUM----and he is scum, for wanting to destroy his own wife---
--he hits on other women, so he has no scruples, and your wondrous wife---opened the whole can of worms up, by saying to him, I like you--
---so you know, he is gonna keep trying till he gets what he wants----BE ASSURED --HE WON'T GO AWAY---unless MADE to do so----you have a ton of advice on what/when to do---and BELIEVE ME when I tell you, you need to move on that advice----he is with her everyday---and no matter what you wanna believe, or she tells you---there is a spark there, and it could ignite just like that----if they go physical---what you are feeling now---magnify by a million.
2nd---- I f you do wish to stay in this mge---you need to find out why you have a wife, who tells other men, she likes them---Happy, satisfied, Married wife's and mothers do not invite that kind of destruction to reign down on their families
She is way more than, "in like" I fear, as she is jealous of him showing attention to other women----I don't know what your mge., is actually like, but if for no other reason than your kids, and if, as I said above, you wanna try R---then you must find out why your wife is INVITING, another man into her/your/your kids lives.
She told him I like you----those were the words she told you---the real question is WHAT DID SHE ACTUALLY SAY TO HIM
I fear you have a bigger problem on your hands, than is showing up on the surface---and if you do not want a major storm to hit your life, and your kids lives---you MUST DEAL WITH IT, and deal with it in a manner, that leaves your wife knowing full well, there will be ACTIONABLE CONSEQUENCES---should she violate her vows/desocrate the mge/destroy the family----Ninja---like it or not---this is deadly serious business, and you better treat it as such!!!!!!!